I recently came across a lady’s post, “your kids are not your retirement plan. Raising them with the expectation they’ll take care of you in old age is emotional blackmail disguised as culture.” Emphasizing that parents should instead plan their future, and parent out of love, not investment. Posts like this carry mix feelings. In … Continue reading Should Children be Their Parent’s Retirement Plan?
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Be Careful What You Wish For
Picsart image Sometimes in life, we dream of something better: a new job, a new friend, a new relationship, a new leader, or even a new life. We imagine how perfect it would be and how it will solve all our problems. But many times, what we wish for may not be what we truly … Continue reading Be Careful What You Wish For
Where do you see yourself when you grow up?
The big question… hah hah Life is like a book, designed specifically for each individuals as they come. Now this book is empty. One can write what ever story they wish, except for the story to stick, one can’t write anything without the help of the designer. Also, one’s story has to align with the … Continue reading Where do you see yourself when you grow up?
What do you know about racism?
Racism! So simple a word, yet echoes in silence, breeding hatred, pain, and fear in it wake. Almost every individual who is of age, somehow have an opinion about racism, as they are either assumed to be a perpetrator or a victim of it. But, what exactly is this racism? Many are of the belief … Continue reading What do you know about racism?
Why Criticism should Come with Respect
No one likes to be criticized, judged, or lectured. Everyone likes to be acknowledged. Criticism could be uncomfortable, discouraging, and often makes one defensive. Whether it’s at home, work, or in our social circles, these interactions rarely lead to positive outcomes. The truth is most individuals want to feel heard and respected. When one acknowledge … Continue reading Why Criticism should Come with Respect
Are You Emotionally Intelligent, or are You Just Being Emotional?
Most individuals believe that they have high emotional intelligence, when in fact they are simply highly emotional. Thoughts provoking right? Yeah, you should think about it. The difference between the two, lies in how emotions are experienced and managed. Allow me to break it down for you: Being Emotional Being emotional means intensely experiencing and … Continue reading Are You Emotionally Intelligent, or are You Just Being Emotional?
Does Hard Work Always Bring Success?
Does hard work always bring success? No. What can i say? I am not a motivational speaker, I will tell you the truth even if It hurts. Hard work leads to success, which is true. But what is also true, is that one could work hard all their life, and still no where near success, … Continue reading Does Hard Work Always Bring Success?
The Greatest Leaders are Followers
Are you a leader or a follower? Who is a leader? A leader is an individual who influences, inspires, and guides a group of people toward achieving a common goal. Leadership can occur in various settings, such as organizations, communities, families, or nations. The role of a leader often involves making decisions, motivating others, setting … Continue reading The Greatest Leaders are Followers
Discipline is Freedom
What is discipline? This is the practice of training oneself or others to follow rules, maintain order, or achieve a particular goal through consistent effort and self control. It involves the ability to manage one’s actions, thoughts, and emotions in a way that aligns with specific values, principles, or objectives. Discipline practically helps individuals strengthen … Continue reading Discipline is Freedom
Is Perfection Possible?
Image from picart What is perfection? The term perfection is a concept used to describe the state of being flawless, or without any defects. However this term is complex because its meaning may vary depending on context and perspective: Subjective perfection For many individuals, perfection is a matter of personal perspective. Something can feel perfect … Continue reading Is Perfection Possible?
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