Picsart There is a simple truth that a lot of individuals struggle to accept: one will always meet someone who is better than them at something. Smarter. Faster. More experienced. More creative. More disciplined. It is normal. It is part of life. What matters is how one responds when they meet such a person. Most … Continue reading When You Meet Someone Better Than You, Don’t Compete. Collaborate.
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Human Nature, Justice, and the Common Good in Today’s Nigeria
Greetings to my dear readers, Before I begin, I shall like to say: I’m glad to be a witness of this day; a time to behold. The consciousness of individuals, across continents, all over the world, are rising in massive numbers. More individuals are becoming more self-aware. And if history has taught us something, it’s … Continue reading Human Nature, Justice, and the Common Good in Today’s Nigeria
No One Can Hurt You Without Your Permission
There’s a powerful truth that many people overlook: no one can truly hurt you without your permission. It’s not about denying pain or pretending that cruel words, betrayal, or disappointment don’t sting. Rather, it’s about understanding that your reaction; not the action, ultimately determines the depth of your hurt. We live in a world where … Continue reading No One Can Hurt You Without Your Permission
Stop Expecting More from Those Who Have Shown You Time and Time Again That You Don’t Matter
Picsart One of the hardest lessons in life is realizing that some people simply don’t value you the way you value them. It’s painful especially when one has given their best, been there through their dark days, and supported them without conditions. Yet, they make excuses, show inconsistency, or treat one’s presence like it’s optional. … Continue reading Stop Expecting More from Those Who Have Shown You Time and Time Again That You Don’t Matter
Nigeria at 65: Our Story, Our Future
Picsart Today, October 1st, 2025, Nigeria celebrates 65 years of independence. Since 1960, we have grown through struggles and successes, carrying the hope of millions of people who believe in the strength of this nation. Our Strength; The People Nigeria’s greatest treasure is not oil or resources, but its people. With over 220 million citizens, … Continue reading Nigeria at 65: Our Story, Our Future
When You Change Your Mind, the Things You Look At Change
Picsart I saw a short video clip. In this video, a man was imprisoned in a cage, about 4ft breadth, 5ft length, and 8ft height. He was surrounded by hundreds of keys. At least one of those keys should open the lock, right? Or maybe not. Anyways to be sure, it will take forever to … Continue reading When You Change Your Mind, the Things You Look At Change
True Societal Growth Begins With the Innovation of the Mind
In response to my article “Has Modern Society Made Humans Smarter or More Ignorant? Read more” someone raised a concern about how his son who used to love reading books and magazines, as well as any radio or tv channels that put out educational contents, like national geographic, and nat geo wild, suddenly stopped reading … Continue reading True Societal Growth Begins With the Innovation of the Mind
Happiness Comes from Within, It’s Your Job, Not Someone Else’s.
List 30 things that make you happy. Many individuals thinks happiness comes from others, or external forces such as, a partner, a job, or material things. However, what makes one happy might not be appealing to another. In other words happiness comes from within you. But what is this happiness exactly? In my article “The … Continue reading Happiness Comes from Within, It’s Your Job, Not Someone Else’s.
Curiosity: The Engine of Growth and Discovery
Picsart image What are you curious about? What is curiosity? Curiosity is a natural emotional state that leads people to seek new information and experiences. Curiosity is one of the most powerful forces that drives human progress. It is the inner desire to learn, explore, and understand the world around us. From childhood to adulthood, … Continue reading Curiosity: The Engine of Growth and Discovery
Respect Your Limitations, But Don’t Use Them as an Excuse
Picart image We all have limitations. And this is not necessary a bad thing, it is life. However, how one choses to manage these limitations is where the magic happens. Every person is born with strengths and weaknesses, a unique set of talents, abilities, and limits. Recognizing those limits is not a sign of defeat … Continue reading Respect Your Limitations, But Don’t Use Them as an Excuse
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