There’s a powerful truth that many people overlook: no one can truly hurt you without your permission. It’s not about denying pain or pretending that cruel words, betrayal, or disappointment don’t sting. Rather, it’s about understanding that your reaction; not the action, ultimately determines the depth of your hurt. We live in a world where … Continue reading No One Can Hurt You Without Your Permission
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Essence; a journal of time Get my novel: “Essence; a journal of time.” Click to get novel The first chapter of this book began with a young boy named Cosmos in a family of six, whereby he was coming of age into a man. He has always had the feeling of being out of place … Continue reading Get my Novel (e-copy)
Stop Expecting More from Those Who Have Shown You Time and Time Again That You Don’t Matter
Picsart One of the hardest lessons in life is realizing that some people simply don’t value you the way you value them. It’s painful especially when one has given their best, been there through their dark days, and supported them without conditions. Yet, they make excuses, show inconsistency, or treat one’s presence like it’s optional. … Continue reading Stop Expecting More from Those Who Have Shown You Time and Time Again That You Don’t Matter
The Uprising Global Religious Tensions: Causes, Consequences, and the Call for Unity
Picsart In recent years, the world has witnessed a noticeable rise in religious tensions from violent conflicts and political polarization to deep social divisions fueled by faith-based ideologies. What was once thought to be a slowly fading phenomenon in an age of globalization and digital connectivity has instead re-emerged with alarming intensity. Social media is … Continue reading The Uprising Global Religious Tensions: Causes, Consequences, and the Call for Unity
The Oldest Trick in the Book: The “Us vs. Them” Tactic
Picsart Today, I shall like to discuss one of the oldest trick in the book; History has shown us that power does not always rest on strength alone but often on manipulation. Among the oldest and most effective political tools ever wielded is the “Us vs. Them” tactic; the deliberate creation of an enemy to … Continue reading The Oldest Trick in the Book: The “Us vs. Them” Tactic
For the Elite, the Media is the Chief Ideological Weapon
Picsart Throughout history, ruling classes have relied on more than military strength or economic resources to maintain power. Control over ideas, the ability to shape how people see the world, has always been just as crucial. The media ranks among the most powerful weapon the elite use to shape how people think, behave, and even … Continue reading For the Elite, the Media is the Chief Ideological Weapon
In Court of Justice, Both Parties Know the Truth; It Is the Judge Who Is on Trial
Picsart. When two people go to court, they are not looking for the truth. They already know it. The person who did wrong knows he did wrong, and the one who was wronged knows the reality of what happened. Both parties carry the truth with them into the courtroom. So why do they come before … Continue reading In Court of Justice, Both Parties Know the Truth; It Is the Judge Who Is on Trial
The Pawns Hate Each Other, But the Players Are Friends
In every society, whether in politics, business, or even daily social structures, there exists a recurring pattern: those at the bottom often find themselves in conflict, while those at the top, who pull the strings, tend to share alliances. This paradox is well illustrated by the saying, “the pawns always hate each other, but the … Continue reading The Pawns Hate Each Other, But the Players Are Friends
When You Change Your Mind, the Things You Look At Change
Picsart I saw a short video clip. In this video, a man was imprisoned in a cage, about 4ft breadth, 5ft length, and 8ft height. He was surrounded by hundreds of keys. At least one of those keys should open the lock, right? Or maybe not. Anyways to be sure, it will take forever to … Continue reading When You Change Your Mind, the Things You Look At Change
True Societal Growth Begins With the Innovation of the Mind
In response to my article “Has Modern Society Made Humans Smarter or More Ignorant? Read more” someone raised a concern about how his son who used to love reading books and magazines, as well as any radio or tv channels that put out educational contents, like national geographic, and nat geo wild, suddenly stopped reading … Continue reading True Societal Growth Begins With the Innovation of the Mind
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