As we go through life, here is a simple truth we often forget: everyone you meet knows something you do not. No matter who they are or where they come from, their life has taught them lessons you have not learned yet.

This does not mean everyone is smarter than you. It means everyone has lived a different life. And different lives produce different wisdom.

The mistake many of us make is deciding too quickly who is worth listening to. We judge by age, education, job, or appearance. But wisdom does not always look impressive. Sometimes it sounds ordinary and shows up in casual conversations.

One can learn from a child, a stranger, a coworker, or someone one does not even agree with. The lesson may be about patience, failure, courage, faith, relationships, or simply how to see things differently.

The Key is Listening.

Most people listen so they can reply. To learn, one must listen to understand. Ask simple questions. Pay attention. Do not rush to prove a point. Even when you disagree, there is often something useful to take away.

Learning from people requires humility. One has to accept that they do not know everything. That someone one least expect might carry an answer one need.

When one stop learning from others, growth slows down. Their thinking becomes narrow, and they repeat the same mistakes. But when one stay curious, life keeps teaching them through people.

A good habit is this: when you meet someone, quietly ask yourself, “What can I learn from this person?” If you listen well, the lesson will usually show up. Even in the least expected individuals.

©️Victor E. Ojei, 2026.